LOVE, ain't enough sometime...

There are two past lovers who met accidentally on the street, then they went to a coffee shop to chat. Neither of them knew and remembered why they had broken up. While they were talking, suddenly they came up with the reason why.

Their habits, their personalities, characters and interests were totally different. Those things were the things that attracted them to each other at first, but while the relation grew, those things are also the caused why they couldn't stand to each other. Up until now, they are still the same and not change a little bit.  

After a while, they finally finished their reunion, said goodbye, wished each other good luck, then left the coffee shop.  

Although, they still havea lingering feeling towards each other, but they know they can't go on any further. They are happy and satisfy with just looking at each other from a far.

The point of this story is, whatever the reasons for you to broke up with your pass lover, those reasons haven't disappeared yet. Even if you start all over again, it would still be the same at the end, unless you two have became a totally different person.

Some loves, no matter how grant they are, won't last for good. Many things are needed to be happy in a good relationship. No matter how passionate the kiss you saw at the end of a drama, there is still a real life after that, right?

Love is a total concept..That person's exterior, knowledge, heart, personality, and even income, can we like and accept just one of those? I don't think so..:) To make your self keep being in love, it's all inclusive.

Let us be realistic and open our eyes widely..Even if you say you can't live without that person, in reality no one has ever died because they fall out of love.

Make sure to find someone "who you can live with" for the rest of your life, because sometime, "LOVE JUST AIN'T ENOUGH."

Best Friends

Spending time with old friends is always brings me nice feeling...There isn’t much excitement in the unknown, but there is plenty of enjoyment in the communication...We’ve known each other so well..We have passed the adjustment phase of our bad behavior; yet we’re laughing and make fun of it now.

I know we've became more than just friends, when we no longer feel the need to cover up our weakness, dirty thoughts, empty pocket nor shameful experiences. We are not family by birth, but we are family by heart. That’s why their bad attitude, shameful sin and empty pocket wont change the way I feel about them. They’ve became my family. I may not always love what they do, nor agree with them all the time, but I can’t change my feeling about them. I love them a lot like I love my own brother and sisters.
We became best friends not in a sudden. There is a time and a process that we have gone through together to be at this rate.
 
Once, when I and a friend of mine were sitting on a park bench, I told him that one of our friends didn’t allow me to go with them. I felt so sad and rejected. Then, he grabbed my hand and said, “Who the hell he think he is. You are my best friend and off course you have to go with me. If he against you, then he has to deal with me.”  Since that day, he grew to be very close to me. I always mark him as my biggest sparring partner because every time we argue and fight, it got very awful but only for a short period he he But he is to me also like an older brother who spoiled me so much. Though he had many bad habits, I still love him. He means a lot to me.

In other story, me and demiters have different history. I used to have a very close girlfriend. I loved her so much but then I found out that she was very jealous with me and bad mouthing me behind my back. Well I wonder, “Was She Really a Friend, Anyway?” He he he… Before I cut ties with her, I didn’t have other friends at school, so it was hard from me in the beginning, until few girls in my class offered me their companion. Since then, my relationship with them grew closer and closer until now. We call our group DEMITERS. We have different personality, came from different background and religion, but we just ‘click’ to each other. The comfort they bring is like an old “daster” to me. In fact, no matter how serious life gets, they are always the people who I can be completely stupid with..

Among many old best friends I have, I think Soraya/Aya is the closest one.. Why? Because, now we even related by blood. Her son is my nephew…Well, we have no choice, but stuck to each other for the rest of our life..:))) We’ve been friends since we were very young, for almost 20 years. Back then, we even got rumor that we were lesbian. No wonder, because we were almost 24 hours together. She was very tomboy while I was very “Tante-tante”..LOL.. We comfort each other through pains and heartbroken..We share laughter and made a lot of good memories. She’s the kind of best friend who will always ride in my car, no matter how many times I nearly kill her, for driving while I was drunk or sleeping…. Rare and sweet, right? Ha ha ha..

 

The best friend I love the most, off course it will always be my husband..I totally agree with Michael Bolton that said that we can’t be lovers if we can’t be friends..:D He’s the guy who won’t make me feel insecure. He’s my best friend, my partner in crime, my biggest supporter and also he’s like a loving father I have never had. He is my everything.

I still have many best friends with each unique histories, but to write them all, it will take many many pages…I think i should stop here for today. I am very grateful for having them in my life. They are my family whom I picked up myself. Friends come and go in my life, but for the precious few, I persist no to let them go.

Bandung, 23 Januari 2013